Life returned to normal for me yesterday. I don't really know when the last time my life was "normal", if there really is such a thing. What I like to think of as normal is this: Husband gets up and goes to work. Husband leaves breakfast things out on the table. Wife/Mother gets up and gets the kids off to school. Mother does various "things" during the day (this may include actual exercise, tedious household chores, shopping-for purposeful things of course, or being lazy...which I reserve the right to do if I have no other "pressing obligations"), kids come home from school, kids play, everyone comes in for dinner prep and homework, the Dad comes home (emphasis on that last part.) You see, Clark went back to work yesterday. He has been home, and I mean home, for six weeks. And yet, I still wasn't ready for him to go. I liked having him around. In fact, while we talk about the new normal I would like to also emphasize that in addition to the six month deployment where he was totally and completely gone gone, he spent 8 of the previous 18 months also gone on various underways. That, is not normal. Not in the normal world, as it were. In the Navy it is indeed perfectly normal. Got that? Normal. Just thought I'd throw one more in for good measure.
The funny thing about "normal" is this. Every time I have asked Clark in the last two weeks what his work schedule will be like, he says that he will get home at a normal time. And then I would get a puzzled look on my face and ask what that meant. Because you see, in all of our time of being married, he has never had a "normal" 9 to 5. I don't really know that many people that do, but you know what I mean. I think I am going to like being normal. Except that there was a shooting at my husband's place of employment (again) today. But with 20,000 employees at the Pentagon, I try to reassure myself by hoping that there are at least 19,999 other people there that might get shot before him. That sounded less rude in my head.
Now I am done using the word "normal".
We have played for the last two weekends. Forget this "Saturday is for chores" bit - we want to hit up all the outdoor stuff before it gets too chilly. The first weekend we went into downtown and did the Smithsonian thing. Last week we did a picnic and exploration of a nearby park...a huge park with bike and running trails, playgrounds, a carousel and a train. Spencer and Sho came with us of course and it was lovely.
Then this last weekend we had our first of [hopefully] many visitors. My older brother, Chip was in town for a Swedish Conference. It was really fun to visit and play with him and shake the very same hand that shook hands with the very royal Queen of Sweden this week. That sounds like a lie but it is completely true. He shook the Queen's hand. Right before we met up with Chip, Spencer and Sho took us to Dunbarton Oaks Garden near Georgetown. Spencer took some very cool pictures here a few weeks ago. The girls had fun exploring and it was quite enjoyable. So pretty.
With lots of convenient places to smooch.
The girls were playing Alice in Wonderland for most of our visit. A lot of the gardens have a very "magical" feel to them.
I love these girls. These four, right here.
And we love this girl. We are so excited and feel so lucky to live near Auntie Sho. She loves the girls so. And they love her right back...except for Mia who happen to be throwing a fit at this particular photo op.
It took no time at all for the girls to love Chip. This is him giving them all a horse ride at the same time and singing about the white horse and two little girls referred to as "fatty" and "the thick one"...or something along those lines...but it's in Swedish so their sensitive little female self images stayed intact.
Then we played some golf. And Sho had to stand up to really maximize her skills (it didn't help...no offense Sho. Come back for a rematch.)
We stayed up until 3am, 3am!!! I didn't think that people our age were allowed to do that. In fact, I didn't know my body was capable of doing that. We were enjoying it way too much...or maybe Chip was just being nice by not reminding us that he couldn't go to sleep until we left his "bedroom" (being the nice brother that he is, he volunteered his space in the Spo Suite to the couple who wouldn't have fit so comfortably on the couch.) On a side note: the Spo Suite will now be affectionately be referred to as the "SO" suite, as in Spencer and Sho's initials...it just sounds better and a little bit more kitschy, which is how a vacation suite should sound.
Then on Sunday morning I made Chip pose for his picture that will go up on the SO suite bulletin board of visitors. He gave us "two thumbs up"...and one of those thumbs has touched the Queen of Sweden, remember.
And then in completely unrelated events, Hazel's head bounced a couple of times on our front walk. It has reminded me of all the other horrid facial injuries brought about by the "clumsy stages" that toddlers go through. Abby probably holds the record for the worst bumps and bruises. I thought about posting our gallery of "worsts" but decided that I would rather not have my kids taken away by CPS. Poor Hazel will heal and all will be well until the next time she walks into a wall or falls down while standing still. Let's hope her coordination improves some before she hits the teen years.
11 comments:
Hazey!! What a strong girl you are! Way to keep it together for the photo! We are sure glad you are here and that things are "normal". We are honored to have something so suite named after us!
I didn't know that Chip was coming to DC! I didn't know he had shaken the Queen's hand! That's what happens when you have a branch of the family that doesn't blog. Thanks for keeping us informed. I'm not sure I ever knew exactly what "normal" was either. Dad never came home at the same time in his life and he traveled a lot. I guess that was our normal. I'm so glad you are enjoying your new area and having lots of fun guests. We can't wait to reserve a room in the so sweet, SO Suite. Happy healing, Hazel!
LOVE this post and feel a sudden need to move to DC where there are so many things to do and see. I wonder if you'll get to a point where you've "Been There, Done That"?
Your girls are stunning and I don't like hearing that there is a shooting at my cousin's office. Dang. You are amazing to be so calm.
I am so glad you are getting a new normal! Would alllow cousins that you haven't seen for a really long time come and stay? And I want you to know that I totally had a dream about you last night. Don't know why. We were with all our kids on a trip somewhere,(no husbands) and we couldn't find where we were going, so we just stopped at the beach for the day instead. Hmmm...Figure that one out.
Hurray for Normal! I think Hazel's fall is totally normal too. You sound like the move is so easy because you have the fun of having a husband around. I am so happy for all of you! What fun pictures and visitors and life.
Hurray for normal! You had one week for every month he missed at the end, although you should have another 8 weeks with that logic.
I heard about that shooting and wondered if Clark was working there yet. Glad he is okay and you are having fun!
So many things to say. First and foremost OW. Ow that my siblings were together and had fun without me...but I'm happy for you. Ow, that my nieces are so beautiful and far away. Ow about Hazel's face, and shootings.
James says that too, "I'll be home at a normal time." And it means absolutely nothing to me. I love him, but it means zilch. Sorry.
Oh how I want to come and stay too!
I'm putting this place on my agenda of "must sees" in the next two years!!!
I'm so impressed that you handle moving and all the chaos so well! I was just spying on you and thought I'd say hi. I hope your new "normal" can be a little predictable! And, I have to say that your girls are so pretty, and they sure look related! Take care!
AAAHHH! I'm so lost! I have not been on this computer for months! Where are you living now??? Washington D.C.? What is Chip doing there?
Have missed you! I love reading up here! It feels like you're not quite that far away.
love that first pic of mia
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